{"id":66822,"date":"2022-08-12T01:14:30","date_gmt":"2022-08-12T05:14:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.techzimo.com\/?p=66822"},"modified":"2022-08-12T01:14:30","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T05:14:30","slug":"how-to-check-someone-out-online","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.techzimo.com\/how-to-check-someone-out-online\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I Trust My New Friend? How to Check Someone out Online"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It can be hard to separate fact from fiction when someone new comes into your life. Can you take what they say at face value? Are they withholding something important?<\/p>\n<p>Today, it\u2019s never been easier to delve into someone\u2019s past. The people we meet could be hiding all sorts of things: a past bankruptcy, an alias, or even a criminal record. You can find all of this and more online.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.cv923slffnbk\"><\/a><strong>Not a Perfect World<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The world isn\u2019t perfect, and strangers can\u2019t trust each other. Your new friend might not be who they say.<\/p>\n<p>Two important reasons to check someone out online: to rule out the possibility that they have a secret life (ex. they\u2019re married) and to verify they are who they say.<\/p>\n<p>The first risk is more significant. Some people turn to online dating as a distraction or a way to pass the time. They don\u2019t mention a significant other to the people they meet because they want that new connection, or they don\u2019t believe it\u2019s important. Then, some people will withhold information about past arrests, unpaid debt, or even something relatively unimportant, like a DUI.<\/p>\n<p>Then, your new friend might be catfishing you. Some people create fake profiles to attract attention or trick others into sending money. This risk is lower but definitely worth ruling out by doing a quick online check.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.9zqbtzh336lu\"><\/a><strong>How to do an Impromptu Background Check<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>A complete background screening can be expensive. It includes education, criminal, and employment history and might even include their financial history. For a simpler and faster way, starts with a simple google search. Use any information you have about them. Enter their first and last name in quote marks in the search bar and add details like their phone or email to see what shows up. Add search terms like \u2018debt,\u2019 \u2018criminal record,\u2019 \u2018divorce,\u2019 \u2018university,\u2019 etc.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.ceic8zj6agcg\"><\/a><strong>Use a People Finder<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Tools like Stud or Dud and information.com aggregate publicly available data. It includes public filings, legal records, and criminal records. You will need to register with some basic information. Then, you can run a fast and affordable check on anyone.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.oo7nuzs5oy20\"><\/a><strong>Public Records<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Try a public records website if your<a href=\"https:\/\/information.com\/\"> people search<\/a> isn\u2019t yielding the desired results. This check will compile information from various sources into a report. You can narrow the results down by using their name, age, and location. You might find a hidden alias, an arrest record, or their real date of birth.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.f0rpq6n2v6ad\"><\/a><strong>Social Networks<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Your new friend has a LinkedIn profile, more likely than not. Start with this medium because people are least likely to lie on it. After all, this information is available to potential employers and clients. They can\u2019t have lied about when they graduated, where from, and their date of birth.<\/p>\n<p>The professional social network is an excellent platform for cross-referencing data. Even if they didn\u2019t list a birthdate, you could roughly<a href=\"https:\/\/fivethirtyeight.com\/features\/how-to-tell-someones-age-when-all-you-know-is-her-name\/\"> infer the year<\/a> from starting college or work dates, confirm their location, and establish what they do for a living.<\/p>\n<p>The next place to take your search is Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Use their name, any location provided, and groups to look for profiles on Facebook. Search their last name and where they live if you know the city. Your search will probably retrieve their friends or family members, even if they\u2019ve deactivated the search feature or used a different name or nickname on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>You can search the network using only a number or email. They\u2019ll be easy to find if they used a real picture and also sent you one. To build a profile, look at the list of friends, how active they are, the timeline and the reactions to their posts, and the users that have reacted. Just<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/close-encounters\/201703\/how-other-people-judge-us-online\"> don\u2019t jump to conclusions.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.ej8dvv14rnfc\"><\/a><strong>How to Find a Criminal Record<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>To check if they have a criminal past, google their county or state plus the term \u2018criminal records.\u2019 You\u2019ll get a list of sites, some of which end in .gov. In the US, criminal records are usually public. You can check the databases for relevant entries.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.hd6pystt9yr8\"><\/a><strong>Searching by a Picture<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Run any images they\u2019ve sent through Google images, pictures from their dating profile, or those on their email account if any. Some people aren\u2019t very creative and try to pass off the first stock photo they find as one of them.<\/p>\n<h2><a id=\"post-66822-_heading=h.nvg1da8b7geq\"><\/a><strong>Developing Trust<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>What does it mean to trust someone? Trust is a sense of safety and loyalty. You feel secure with a person. You believe they won\u2019t hurt you. Relationships are built on trust because it\u2019s what allows you to open up to someone without having to protect yourself. Trust doesn\u2019t just appear out of nowhere. It has to be earned, and screening services can help.<\/p>\n<p>Image source:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.pixabay.com\/photo\/2017\/12\/22\/05\/56\/passport-control-3033053_960_720.jpg\">https:\/\/cdn.pixabay.com\/photo\/2017\/12\/22\/05\/56\/passport-control-3033053_960_720.jpg<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It can be hard to separate fact from fiction when someone new comes into your life. Can you take what they say at face value? Are they withholding something important? Today, it\u2019s never been easier to delve into someone\u2019s past. 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